10 ways to spot a catfish
A few years ago, I was obsessed with the TV show Catfish . I couldn't understand how so many people were duped by others pretending to be someone they weren't. This weekend, it almost happened to me, for 24 hours, I believed I was exchanging messages with 'John' after he found me on Instagram. My gut feeling from the beginning was that something was amiss, but I went with it anyway. After about an hour, I reverse searched one of his Instagram images. That's a trick I learned on Catfish . Immediately, the photo came up on the profile of a respectable New York businessman. For the next few hours, I was cagey and John persisted - even when I called him on the photo issue. He just got hurt and then forgave me. That was nice of him. So, here are my top ten ways to spot a catfish, based on this weekend: If your instinct tells you something is wrong, listen to it. You're probably right. The more perfect they seem to be, the more likely they are to be imaginary...